So, you're looking for a beautiful woman with whom to have a relationship. The degree of difficulty you'll experience depends on your definition of beauty.
If you're searching only for outward, physical attractiveness, there are plenty of beautiful females around. Check out the beaches, the health clubs, high-priced fashion boutiques, beauty salons and other places where lovely ladies are likely be congregate.
However, be aware that you might encounter a slight problem. These beautiful women are probably accustomed to being courted by handsome, well-to-do gentlemen. Do you fit into this category?
If so, approach the girl of your choice, and turn on the charm.
One other note of caution: check out her left hand for engagement or wedding rings. These outwardly attractive females are often the first ones snatched up by serious suitors who propose marriage. The girl whom you judge to be the most attractive may be married, or may be determined to get married. She may not wish to settle for "a relationship". Some girls are funny that way; they prefer the more definite and secure status of being a wife.
Perhaps you need to adjust your criteria for a partner in the relationship. How about choosing a girl with a pleasant, but not outstandingly beautiful appearance? If you're able to look beyond her outer image, you may discover a personality worth more than all the bleached-blond, Marilyn Monroe types in Hollywood. There are important questions whose answers will be significant in determining the quality and duration of the relationship you're searching for:
Do you share similar interests? Will your family and friends approve of your choice? Is she happy and secure within herself, or is she looking for a free ride and someone who'll take care of her? Can she cook? How many ex-husbands or ex-partners has she had? Do you share the same taste in music, movies, restaurants? Are your temperaments compatible?
If, after a reasonable amount of time in which you get to know each other, the young lady is able to provide positive and acceptable replies to all these questions, and you enter into a relationship with her, you should consider yourself one very fortunate man indeed.
If you're not convinced, let your imagination leap twenty-five years into the future, and picture each of these scenarios.
If you had found a partner who was beautiful, in fact, drop-dead gorgeous, and somehow, you got her to agree to enter a relationship with you, where would you be? You might be waking up each morning in bed beside a bony, orange-haired, wrinkled shrew, who is demanding, in a shrill voice, for you to hurry up and bring her breakfast!
Contrast that to the image of waking up to a smiling partner, maybe wrinkled, but still pleasant-looking, who is getting ready for work, as the aroma of fresh coffee drifts through the bedroom. When she's ready, she'll lay out your clothes for the office.
Such a woman is worth her weight in diamonds! If you were smart, you decided to cement your relationship with a wedding ring before some other guy could moved in on you and enticed her away!
Part of the maturing process in humans is discovering that, as the old saying goes, "Beauty is only skin deep." It is also fleeting. If you find a woman with whom you can think you can spend the rest of your life, even if she isn't a raving beauty, don't let her walk away. Be astute enough to look below the surface to where real, lasting beauty resides: in her character. You'll never regret your decision, and you'll be the envy of many of those men who, years before, entered a relationship or married one of the drop-dead gorgeous females.
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