Single guys who want to save time and money need to stay alert for subtle feminine signals that she's no longer interested in their company or anything else they have to offer. Girls are often less direct than men. They may lack the courage to look you in the eye and say, "That's it! Buzz off, Buster!"
If you are plagued with a bad temper, and she's witnessed a few temper tantrums, she may be afraid to tell you face-to-face she's had enough.
Or, she may just be tender-hearted, and want to let you down softly. If she can make you break up with her, that will solve her problem, won't it?
Whatever her reasons for wanting to end the relationship, here are some signs and signals she may give that your presence is no longer wanted or welcomed in her world. She will probably start off with subtle hints and, if they don't work, proceed to the more blazingly apparent..
(1) When you come to visit, even if she's expecting you, she doesn't bother to dress up or put on make-up. To be honest, she looks appalling. To emphasize that she is not thrilled to see you, she may continue her phone conversation, or another activity for a quarter hour or more, almost ignoring your presence.
(2) She stops being considerate of your preferences. She wants to watch her TV programs, insists on going to movies of her choice and listens to her kind of music, even when she knows you find her choices disagreeable.
(3) She muses aloud about future plans that could not possibly include you, like joining a convent, or working in a Women's Shelter in Africa.
(4) She begins breaking regular date nights for trivial reasons, for example, her dog has started to have nightmares and she has to sit with him.
(5) She returns anything you may have left at her place, saying she is busy cleaning house and wants to get rid of all the "junk".
(6) When you call, she doesn't answer the phone. If you leave a message on the answering machine, she does not return your call.
(7) When you meet unexpectedly she's in a hurry and too busy to stop and chat.
(8) She blocks you on Facebook.
(9) When you go to her house or apartment and knock on the door, no one answers, even though her car is in the driveway.
( 10) Your friends tell you they've seen her out with some other guy, and from the way they were relating to each other, it was definitely not her cousin.
It's time to accept the inevitable and move on. Look on the whole matter as a learning experience. If , this time, you hung around until matters reached items number 7 or 8, resolve that next time you'll get the message by the time the female in question has only reached items 2 or 3.
And who knows? There may not be a next time. Your soul mate could be waiting right around the next corner, but you'll never find her if you don't get out there and start searching.
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